The one that got away

             Every girl wants to find that perfect guy, that nice guy who will treat them with respect, that guy who is romantic and hardworking and has a future. a guy they can settle down with. but meeting this guy is all about timing. if you meet him in ur early rebelliousness age then your not gonna wanna be with him and ur going to break up with him for a more adventurous guy and that nice guy will always be 'the one that got away'. i have had a lot of really nice guys try to talk to me but i push them all away, because well... i want me a bad boy! im young and i want adventures, bad boys are harder to tame and give you more of a challenge. yes, most of them are players or cause alot of drama but shit thats what girls want. but right now in my life those overly nice guys are really annoying. I hate it when they overfill with you will compliments. at first its very cute or even butterfly causing when a guy calls you beautiful and tell you how special you are, but after getting told that every single day, it doesnt become special anymore. it becomes just as bland as a turkey sandwich.
             Usually those really nice guys are push overs. They dont take charge they just do whatever you want them too. and you essentially whip them in the first week. We girls like a challenge, if your too whippable then idk i get bored and get over them and move on to the next. But if a guy is hard to get i still like them. You will stop at nothing until you get him. Its like when your parents tell you cant go to a rated R movie, and it just makes you wanna go to it even more because they told you cant.  Relationships should be a 50 50 kind of thing, when not just one person is wearing the pants in the relationship. With overly nice/pushover guys usually the girl gets like 100 control and well no one should be in total control of a relationship.        
               Usually a really nice guy loves to smoother you, thus becoming hella annoying clingy to the point where your suffocating with the stench of love and annoyance from that person. Yes, everyone goes through that couple stage where you want to be with that significant other 24/7 but if you with that person way to much, one of y'all are gonna get too much of each other and begin to feel suffocated. and that person will eventually get distance from the other and most likely cause a whole rukas of problems. once your with someone every single day you begin to get irritated with them, and little things will piss each other off. so take some space, let your loved one breath!
            There is nothing wrong with nice guys, every girl eventually wants to end up with one of them when they get married. but like i said before its all about timing, if you meet this person too soon, you'll break up with them. when your young you want to live, not be tied down. but as you get older ur gonna want to find a nice guy, and if you dont then well you might see that 'overly nice guy' as "the one that go away. "